Summer is here and many of us are going off to college. Several of us have a significant other. This is a person we have no idea what to do with when we begin the next chapter of our lives.
There are three main situations:
1. Let’s stay together although we are apart (Kiss Me Thru the Phone Pt. 1)
2. You want to split but don’t know how to break it to your partner. (Climax Pt. 2)
3. Let’s go apart although we want to stay together (No Air Pt. 3)
To save reading time, I split the situations into parts and incorporated a video that corresponds with each. Read the one that pertains to you or read all three. Pt. 2 coming soon!
2. You want to split but don’t know how to break it to your partner.
Now this is one that will get you in trouble. College provides opportunities to meet new people. You want to take advantage of these opportunities but your partner still means something to you. You know how your partner feels about you and you know that he/she wants to stay committed. What do you do?
Individuals that find themselves in this situation must realize that if they have reached their climax in the relationship , their relationship will not work. If there is even a speck of this sort of feeling within you, then you have provided the opportunity for infidelity (cheating) to seep in and destroy a good thing. You think you are saving your partner the heartbreak when in reality; you are lying, deceiving, and creating a truly unfixable dent in your relationship. Also, even if you do not realize it, your body language will tell your partner that you don’t want to be with him/her.
Solution? Sit down with your partner and discuss your concerns. I know that “talking it out” sounds cliché but if really does help. You may discover that he/she feels the same way. If not, at least you are not lying. And if after your discussion, your partner decides that this is absolutely unacceptable. He or she is completely in love and does not want to even entertain the idea of going separate ways during college…. change your number, and delete your facebook AND RUN :) . If your partner cannot maturely accept your decision to split….then SPLIT!
There are three main situations:
1. Let’s stay together although we are apart (Kiss Me Thru the Phone Pt. 1)
2. You want to split but don’t know how to break it to your partner. (Climax Pt. 2)
3. Let’s go apart although we want to stay together (No Air Pt. 3)
To save reading time, I split the situations into parts and incorporated a video that corresponds with each. Read the one that pertains to you or read all three. Pt. 2 coming soon!
2. You want to split but don’t know how to break it to your partner.
Now this is one that will get you in trouble. College provides opportunities to meet new people. You want to take advantage of these opportunities but your partner still means something to you. You know how your partner feels about you and you know that he/she wants to stay committed. What do you do?
Individuals that find themselves in this situation must realize that if they have reached their climax in the relationship , their relationship will not work. If there is even a speck of this sort of feeling within you, then you have provided the opportunity for infidelity (cheating) to seep in and destroy a good thing. You think you are saving your partner the heartbreak when in reality; you are lying, deceiving, and creating a truly unfixable dent in your relationship. Also, even if you do not realize it, your body language will tell your partner that you don’t want to be with him/her.
Solution? Sit down with your partner and discuss your concerns. I know that “talking it out” sounds cliché but if really does help. You may discover that he/she feels the same way. If not, at least you are not lying. And if after your discussion, your partner decides that this is absolutely unacceptable. He or she is completely in love and does not want to even entertain the idea of going separate ways during college…. change your number, and delete your facebook AND RUN :) . If your partner cannot maturely accept your decision to split….then SPLIT!
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